We got married on 25th october 2017. We could not indulge in sexual intercourse due to pain and fear. So we decided to go for a medical treatment. But choosing the right hospital was a challenging task. We have heard about Dr. Promodus Institute a few years back and we startd waching several interviews with Dr. Promodu through various youtube channels and television programs. After watching these we could understand that a lot of women and men are facing these very same problems and can be easily cured with proper treatment. We became very much confident that our problem can be cured at Dr. Promodus Institute. We got admitted Institute for treatment and we have achieved great results in the past two weeks. Now we are able to indulge in a normal sexual intercourese successfully.
Thanks to Promodu sir and entire team.

          Thanks to promodu sir and entire team.

Vini & Sali
15/10/2018

I am princy, 33 years old. I got married in may 2016. I entered into my married life with lots of expectations and dreams but all my dreams got shattered when I found that I was not able to enjoy penetrative sex due to my fear. I was able to enjoy foreplay but when it comes to intercourse I became frightened and tried to push my husband away. Intially my husband and I thought that intensitiy of the fear would be alleviated with time. However opposite of what we expected had happend. When every time we tried my fear got heightned and ended up in a situation where I became completely aversive towards sex. At that stage we thought of consulting a gynaecologist, because we already had pressure from our family about pregnancy. As the gynaecologist was a known person to us, She was able to do a minal check-up on me and told that I did not have much problem anatomically to have normal sex. Still I was not able to control my fear. After an year of marriage we decided to consult a psychiatrist in kerala. Psychiatrist told us that I did not have much problem except my anxiety and it would solve with anxiety releving medications. He also advised us to move spiritually and pray to god to get rid of the anxiety. I tried to move in spiritual way by attending conselling and treatment section. But I didnt get any relief from that. My anxiety level had been increasing day by day and started to affect my daily activities too. Finally I started to search in internet about fear of sex and related topics. From manorama online site. I happend to read an article of Dr. Promodu regarding vaginismus and its treatment. I discussed it with my husband and he told me that if I am confident about the treatment we can try. Immediatly I arranged leave and consulted Dr. Promodu in his hospital and he assured us with 100% cure for our problem. We have undergone 2 weeks of treatment in PISM hopital under Dr. Promodus guidence. At the end of the treatment I was able to enjoy penetrative sex without any distress. During the treatment course I had flunctuating thoughts in mind and my anxiety level also shooted up, but it was managed well with relaxation techniques. Now I am happily getting discharged today.
I extend my heartful thanks to Dr. Promodu, Simi Sister and all the crew members of PISM hospital for their support. I wish all the best to your future endeavours. Now I am going home to open a new chapter of my life, remember us in your prayers.
Thanking you
Princy J.
OP. NO. 19666

          I extend my heartful thanks to Dr. Promodu, Simi Sister and all the crew members of PISM hospital for their support. I wish all the best to your future endeavours. Now I am going home to open a new chapter of my life, remember us in your prayers.

Thanking you
Princy Jestine

As with most major decisions or problems, it is not normal to find the right solution in the first place you look.  By the time you find  Dr. Promodus Institute of Sexual Medicine, as well as website and possibly read the testimonials, you will be ready for anything.

          We are nurses and have been married since 4 years. Through out these years we were not able to make a happy sexual life, because I had never experienced penetration and had enormous anxieties about intercourse.  We have been praying for this for so long and noting seemed to worse.  I honestly never thought this would be possible before I reached here. I had heard about Dr. Promodus Institute from website and I discussed with my husband to gather an appointment. After the first consultation with Dr. Promodu, he assured me that, I should not be afraid, which put my mind at ease more and more.

          Dr. Promodu has completely changed my out look on life. Before sex I felt like a misfit. I knew there was some thing wrong with me but I thought it was something I would never be able to fix. Doctor suggested me to start the treatment.  We started our treatment on 18-07-2018. My husband was very supportive for those days; however sometimes his confidence crumpled and was not sure about whether this therapy will success? Although day by day my fear got reduced and felt more condident.

          Today 28.07.2018, " By Gods grace and Dr. Promodus team. We had our first intercourse, extremely happy and overwhelmed.  Have no words to say more .  We will always be grateful for the care that we received here for the caring and professionalism of Dr. Promodu and Sr.Simi.  The staff and the treatment  literally changed my life in a way I could never expect. They brought me farther on this journey  that I ever believed could happen. I never felt rushed, put always encouraged.

          All the staffs here are very cooperative and understanding. Thank you Dr. Promodu , Sr. Simi, OT Staff, Dr. Shijini (Gynecologist), ward sisters reception staffs, Mr. Asok Sir, house keeping staffs, and all the staffs those who working in PISM. Special thanks to Dr. Promodu and Sr. Simi who have been supportive all the way.  Many thanks to all.  "You all should be really proud of yourselves about what you do every day in PISM."

Shilpa

We were unable to consummate our marriage for last 9 years.  We visited many gynaecologists, but we could not get a proper guidance or attention to overcome this issue.  We googled many times to find a solution and then we read about Dr. Promodu’s Institute.  Even after reading all the positive reviews, we were sceptical about the results.  Then we personally visited the Institute and met the doctors.  Even then, our doubts about the results still lingered.  We did not believe that this could be resolved in 2 week’s time.  It took us one year to get convinced and try out the treatment. In between, we had tried a couple of IUI as well, which did not yield positive results.  When we were at the peak of our frustration, we wanted to try out this treatment.

          Right from the moment we took admission here, we felt that there is a positive vibe. We think it is because of several factors like doctor’s approach, holistic assessment with all experts like urologist, gynaecologist, physician and cardiologist and all under one roof.  And the atmosphere is conducive. We would suggest you shut off the disturbances – official / personal and give yourself two week’s time to get 100% result. Special mention about Dr.Promodu and chief nurse Mrs. Simi.  They listen to you emphatically and provide personalised solution for all the challenges faced by us, during the course of the treatment.

For people out there, who are seeking treatment for unconsummated marriage for whatsoever reason, Please try this treatment and diligently follow the instructions and be honest with the challenges and difficulties during the treatment.

By the end of the treatment, you can be rest assured that you go back consummated and satisfied.

 It’s been 8½ yrs of our married life. We were unable to do a proper intercourse. Initialy, my husband told me it happens to every girl and would change within weeks. As time passed the fear in me increased. I was even scared to approach the gynaecologist as they will physically examine me. My husband who has been my support system never ever had a fight on this issue - Touchwood. This made me worry and the situation became bad as I was wasting his life too. I restricted myself from socializing and started isolating as everyone asks of baby, treatment etc. Lost peace of mind and was mentally upset.

Finally, January 15^th 2018, we found an advertisement of Dr. Promodu ‘s  Institute of Sexual  & Marital Health Pvt. Ltd . We dropped in,underwent counselling and was advised for a stay of two weeks .

 He assured us 100% success in his treatment. We were very well convinced with his treatment and gave a try.

Dr. Promodu guided and helped us throughout. It took completely 15 days for my fear to disappear and we did our first intercourse. We believed in them, more than ourselves. We wished we could have found Dr. Promodu much earlier.  Dr himself & sister Simi patiently answers all our questions, give us positive energy whenever we are down. All the staffs are polite and pleasant.

It’s a Lifetime favour for the money you spent. Thank God. And thank you Dr. Promodu for your wonderful job. May you continue this service with utmost health & prosperity, with the grace of God.  I wish many more patients with similar issues get benefited by Dr. Promodu.

Mrs  & Mr.  JAVED.

March 16, 2018

We have been married for 3.5 years. We were living in different cities after our marriage. When we started living together after 9 months, We experienced a certain discomfort in engaging in sexual intercourse. Due to the stress at work, sexual desire was slowly reducing. This led to other issues in marriage such as fights and frustration. The relationship got very strained. We have not engaged in a sexual intercourse for the past 1.5 – 2 years.

          We came to PISM Hospital to resolve the issue and to revive our relationship. With the therapy and counselling sessions, we saw a grate change within 10 days. Dr. Promodu mentored and guided us well. Now as a couple, we feel more comfortable in sharing each other’s desires and trouble. It has helped us to grow closer and become very intimate. We were able to solve the issue of lack of sexual desire. This has given hope to our romantic relationship & has revived our love.

Anjali & Adithya Rao

30.12.2017

     “Everything should be alright” that was the only prayer in our mind when we came to Dr. Promodu’s Institute two weeks ago. It was a very difficult situation to explain the guilt feeling and internal pain what we had possessed in our 7 years of married life by not having any sexual relationship due to some kind of unexplainable fear or insecurity. But, EVERYTHING IS CHANGED, IMPOSSIBLE THINGS BECAME POSSIBLE......

      On the very first day, while talking with Dr.Promodu, he established a good professional relationship by explaining different situation he managed in his career. We decided to stay at the hospital and to have an attempt to solve our problem. Today is one of the good days in our life. The systematic and professional approach to the treatment for our sexual problems has proven the result.

      We could experience the true dedication and truthful care from Dr. Promodu and his staffs. I truly believe that God will send angles from heaven to help us when we face bad situations and challenges in our life. Again, let me say Dr.Promodu and his entire team of staffs are angles from heaven sent by the Lord to help us...GOD BLESS U ALL and let God give strength and guidance to treat the public who has problems like how we had.

     Special thanks to Mrs. Simi Nursing superintendent, Mr. Ashok Kumar, the PRO and the entire nursing staff from the bottom of our heart.

      13/12/2017                                                                                                                                                     SM & AS

It’s been 1 ½ years after our marriage, during this period, we weren’t able to do a proper intercourse. I had the difficulty of erection only at the time of intercourse. We tried to sort it out by ourselves, but we couldn’t. So, we consulted a doctor, and they advised medications, which didn’t show any improvement. Later, we came to know about Dr. Promodu’s Institute, through our relative. We consulted him and we had a proper counselling, detailed check up by urologist and Gynaecologist for both of us. Since all the reports were normal, we were advised to have a sex therapy which is of two weeks duration. We got admitted and the treatment was really effective. During the later stage of treatment, we were able to have intercourse. We are very happy and completely satisfied with the treatment. All our issues were completely cured. We are grateful to Dr. Promod, as he guided us throughout the treatment and gave proper advices. All the staff treated us very well. We never had a feeling of being away from home, as it was like being at home. We will definitely suggest this institute for any sexual & marital problem for all.. Mr. & Mrs. Salman. 27th November 2017.

Please do read the previous mail of ours (A Reincarnation). We are much delighted to share this precious moment of ours of becoming a father and mother. We are blessed with a baby boy on 13th of this month. It’s with tears of joy and fluffiness, we are thanking Dr. Promodu and his institute for their remarkable way of approach which paved the way for a complete U-Turn in our life which was heading to a complete devastation. Dr. PROMODUS’S INSTITUTRE OF SEXUAL & MARITAL HEALTH is the pioneer institute in India for tackling marital problems in the most scientific and sophisticated way. We are strongly recommending the institute for all those who are still struggling with their unexplainable marital problems. We are once again thanking Dr. Promodu and his institute for enabling us to lead a meaningful and joyful life. Mr & Mrs Vishnu

The Stress & Trauma

Everyone endures their fair share of sexual growing pains, but mine was especially agonizing and embarrassingly unique. My sexual difficulty made me feel inadequate and incompetent. It has been one of the most traumatic phases of my life, holding onto this embarrassing secret unable share my dilemma with anyone (not even my mother or sisters). I felt like a freak - felt guilty that I could not give my husband sexual pleasure. Not only did this put a lot of stress on our marriage, the desire to have a baby was the last straw which broke the camels back.

By April 2017, I was married for 3 years and 5 months and still nowhere close to been a mother. Getting pregnant was herculean task for me and that was because I was scared of SEX. Especially of penetration, the word itself was ample to drive me away. Though I did enjoy physical intimacy with my husband, when it came to actual penetration it was nothing but excruciating pain. With only my unfortunate and loving husband aware of my situation our dream and wish to be parents had hit a dead end. While the urge to complete the family was strong and our parents apprehensive to know why I was unable to conceive I was pressurised to consult an expert. I was petrified about the fact that I may need to seek medical attention to achieve this goal. 

The Unsympathetic Doctors

My first ever visit to the gynaecologist and I told her I was unable to conceive and that was due to my fear of sexual interaction and what I exactly felt. I broke down to tears while explaining the pain I experience when my husband tried to penetrate. Her first reaction was “are you aware unconsummated marriages can one the reasons husband can file for a divorce”. I was shocked not aware how to even respond. I was wishing and hoping she would rather check me anatomically, than provide her legal point of view. Though she did check in the end by inserting one of her lubricated fingers in my vagina and confirming the hymen is broken. Hence confirming penis penetration is possible, and I will have to tolerate the pain and I will be fine. This first visit the gynaecologist was least helpful to me.

My second visit to another gynaecologist was when I developed symptoms of PCOD. During my visits for treatment of PCOD I explained to her again, my fear of sexual interaction and what I exactly felt. I broke down to tears again while explaining the pain I experience when my husband tried to penetrate. She explained many girls go through pain during their first sexual intercourse and it was normal. To make me more aware of my genital area she suggested I insert my finger into my vagina and when I am comfortable I can try inserting a brinjal. What a bizarre and weird solution she recommended was beyond my imagination. Though she treated by PCOD efficiently she was also least helpful when it came to sexual problem.

My third visit to another gynaecologist was the most unpleasant ever. When she was made aware of my problem all she did was the below :

-          Yelled at me for been so childish. A 37 year old woman and saying sex was painful. According to her I had to endure the pain

-          Yelled at me for not understanding that I was way past my child bearing age and was losing the precious little time I had left.

-          Suggested I go in for IVF treatment immediately and gave me only 25% of chances

As all 3 visits to different gynaecologists not been fruitful and were the least helpful when it came to addressing my issue of FEAR of sexual intercourse. It was a dead end and not single ray of hope. I was feeling worse than ever before. I didn’t have a name for my disease or a shred of hope that I would ever enjoy a penis inside of me again.

I spent my nights laying awake in my bed feeling sorry for myself. All this increased my depression, had to quit my job, frequent fights with my husband, absolutely no interest is any sort of activity. I felt that I was being punished.

With only my husband aware of my issue and unable to seek any help from family or friends due to shame and humiliation I reached out GOD and begged him to show me the way.

The Self Realisation

.By April 2017 all I felt was disappointment, hopelessness and angry at myself. Unable to satisfy my husband sexually was the greatest disappointment followed by unable to conceive due to this fear of pain during sexual intercourse. Unable to analyse if the issue was anatomically or psychologically I was on the verge of killing myself when I stumbled upon an article on the web  which explained about ‘a painful condition that affected millions of women across the globe’........and there it was EUREKA.............. a medical terminology for my condition & it was VAGINISMUS.

The relief, the liberation, the answer, the support this one word gave me was equal to nothing I ever experienced before. Upon understanding what exactly are the causes or symptoms for this condition was. I started to search for doctors who treated this condition in India and there the first link which popped was Dr. Promodus Institute of Sexual & Marital Health. Oh....what a god sent answer.

The moment google popped up this institutes name I just felt all my prayers were answered and saw that small ray of hope.

The Treatment

After reading there were other women facing similar fears of pain during sexual intercourse just like me and Dr Promodu had treated them successfully, my husband and I were in Kochi to meet him on 24 April 2017.

During my first interaction with him, I poured my heart out; my fear of pain during sexual intercourse, my disappointment in not satisfying my husband sexually, my deep desire to be a mother. All he did listened to me patiently, which none of the gynaecologists had done previously. He responded ‘Give me 12-14 days and you will be treated’ and that was all the assurance I was looking for. He helped understand I was going through a condition which could be treated and there were hundreds of such similar cases. He explained in detail what VAGINISMUS the possible causes and symptoms. He answered all my questions, queries and doubts patiently. He explained I was absolutely fine, there was nothing wrong with me, but it was in my mind were all the fear was. Which none of the previous gynaecologists had even viewed from that perspective. He guaranteed that my husband & I will be able to enjoy sexual intercourse as normal couples. We were treated in their institute from18 Aug till 30 Aug 2017.

(I do not wish to go in depth of the treatment, but it was a wonderful soothing experience, even I didint realise each stage passed to cure.)

Post Treatment

Happy, elated, ecstatic and confident as never before. For the first time ever I am not petrified of pain during sexual intercourse. I am confident I will be a mother in the near future, and all Thanks to Dr Promodu. I felt GOD had answered all my prayers and it was a divine intervention in directing me towards this wonderful and efficient institution for treating my problem.

Dr Promodu successfully and patiently treated me for my condition and my husband and I are returning a lot happier and more confident as ever before.

It takes courage for women to seek medical advice for Vaginismus. Most gynecologists dont take these patients seriously, but it is worthwhile to examine it as a cause for infertility. The fact that many gynaecologists are clueless about this condition can just end up making a bad situation even worse. They will often pooh-pooh the womans concerns; or force her to subject herself to a painful, humiliating situations Many unsympathetic doctors will actually blame the woman for her problem.

But Dr Promodu is a pioneer in this field. His level of knowledge, his patience, his ability to understand the roots of the problem, his method of treatment, his integrity is highly appreciable. I wish I had consulted him much earlier. But nevertheless, my husband and I returning much happier and refreshed as never before. Thank you Dr Promodu, we pray to GOD he blesses you good health and happiness and may you reach great heights in your profession.

The Institution

ª  Staff Knowledge  5/5

ª  Staff Co-operation 5/5

From the minute we checked in (which was way past midnight) to the minute we checked out the level of care, commitment and responsiveness I received from each and every member of staff is highly commendable.

Friendly, Professional, Prompt, Pleasant, Smiling staff.

ª  Cleanliness  5/5

ª  Integrity & Respect 5/5