We have seen and successfully treated so many couples married for several years without having sexual intercourse. This condition is called unconsummated marriage. The couple with longest duration I have seen is of 22 years.  Non consummation of marriage can occur due to several reasons. It is due to problems related to either husband, wife or both. Male problems such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, Sexual desire disorder, dyspareunia, phimosis, peyronies disease and female problems such as absence of sexual desire, sexual arousal disorder, dyspareunia, sexual aversion disorder, vaginismus etc can cause non consummation of marriage. Other psychological problems such as adjustment problems, marital conflicts or dislike towards the partner also can lead to such conditions. How ever nothing to worry about it. With modern investigative and treatment modalities  we can identify the cause and treat it successfully.

There are different causes for premature ejaculation. This may be due to infection, inflammation, hypersensitivity, habituation or any other factors. First the etiology should be identified. Treatment may vary from medication to sex therapy or a combination of both based on the etiological factors. To decide the treatment you need to undergo a clinical evaluation including physical examination and investigations. With out that it cannot be treated. Definitely there is a cure for this problem. So please consult a doctor practicing modern medicine.

There is no medicine available or discovered so far to increase the penile size. Only surgical procedures are available which we are doing  at our Institute. You can see it from our web site also.  There are solutions for all problems.

From our experience of treating thousands of patients with sexual problems from Kerala and outside it is found that 99% of men complaints of small penis got apprehension and doubt about the size of their sexual organ. It is only a concern, and not a fact. The size of flaccid penis is immaterial and it will keep on changing based on the atmospheric and body temperature. Most men worry about the size of the flaccid penis. The only published research study conducted in India on penile size is from Dr. Promodus Institute of Sexual & Marital Health which is published in the International Journal of Impotence Research (2007, 19,558-563). The mean erected length is found to be 13.01 cm with a SD of 1.62 cm.  The summary of this study is available at the Institute’s website (www.drpromodusinstitute.in) and the full paper is available in the internet at the journal’s site.

There are different causes for premature ejaculation. This may be due to infection, inflammation, hypersensitivity, habituation or any other factors. First the etiology should be identified. Treatment may vary from medication to sex therapy or a combination of both based on the etiological factors. To decide the treatment you need to undergo a clinical evaluation including physical examination and investigations. With out that it cannot be treated. Definitely there is a cure for this problem. So please consult a doctor practicing modern medicine.

If any of the partners is not satisfied we can assume that there is a problem. Inability to control the ejaculation may be due to several reasons. Sometimes this may be a habit. In some other cases such problems may be due to infection, inflammation, hypersensitivity, or any other factors. First we have to find out the cause. Treatment may vary from medication to sex therapy or a combination of both based on the causes. To plan the treatment you need to undergo a clinical evaluation including physical examination and investigations. Based on the results it can be successfully treated.

We have seen and successfully treated so many couples married for several years without having sexual intercourse. This condition is called unconsummated marriage. The couple with longest duration I have seen is of 22 years.  Non consummation of marriage can occur due to several reasons. It is due to problems related to either husband, wife or both. Male problems such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, Sexual desire disorder, dyspareunia, phimosis, peyronies disease and female problems such as absence of sexual desire, sexual arousal disorder, dyspareunia, sexual aversion disorder, vaginismus etc can cause non consummation of marriage. Other psychological problems such as adjustment problems, marital conflicts or dislike towards the partner also can lead to such conditions. How ever nothing to worry about it. With modern investigative and treatment modalities  we can identify the cause and treat it successfully.

There is no medicine available or discovered so far to increase the penile size. Only surgical procedures are available which we are doing  at our Institute. You can see it from our web site also.  There are solutions for all problems.

From our experience of treating thousands of patients with sexual problems from Kerala and outside it is found that 99% of men complaints of small penis got apprehension and doubt about the size of their sexual organ. It is only a concern, and not a fact. The size of flaccid penis is immaterial and it will keep on changing based on the atmospheric and body temperature. Most men worry about the size of the flaccid penis. The only published research study conducted in India on penile size is from Dr. Promodus Institute of Sexual & Marital Health which is published in the International Journal of Impotence Research (2007, 19,558-563). The mean erected length is found to be 13.01 cm with a SD of 1.62 cm.  The summary of this study is available at the Institute’s website (www.drpromodusinstitute.in) and the full paper is available in the internet at the journal’s site.

From your description it appears that you may have a tight frenulum. Without examination an opinion cannot be given. Please consult doctors who can advice whether you require a circumcision or frenuloplasty.

Chronic diabetes mellitus is one of the most common causes of erectile dysfunction.It is quite possible that some diabetogenic changes might have occurred in the corpus cavernosum inside the penis which can lead to an erectile problem. It has to be evaluated first and the treatment should be planned based upon the findings. In certain cases medicines may be effective. In such instances it can be treated with a combination of medication. In other cases where medicines are not effective surgery is the only answer and it the best as well as a life long remedy. In your case it can be planned only after the evaluation.

We have seen and successfully treated so many couples married for several years without having sexual intercourse. This condition is called unconsummated marriage. The couple with longest duration I have seen is of 22 years.  Non consummation of marriage can occur due to several reasons. It is due to problems related to either husband, wife or both. Male problems such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, Sexual desire disorder, dyspareunia, phimosis, peyronies disease and female problems such as absence of sexual desire, sexual arousal disorder, dyspareunia, sexual aversion disorder, vaginismus etc can cause non consummation of marriage. Other psychological problems such as adjustment problems, marital conflicts or dislike towards the partner also can lead to such conditions. How ever nothing to worry about it. With modern investigative and treatment modalities  we can identify the cause and treat it successfully.

If you are not yet divorced a short course of sex therapy as in-patients will solve your problem.