It appears that you are suffering from premature ejaculation.  This may be due to various causes such as infection, inflammation, hypersensitivity, habituation etc.  First we have to find out the cause.  To plan the treatment you need to undergo a clinical evaluation including physical examination and investigations.  Based on the results it can be successfully treated.

Mr. Febin,

with this information it is difficult to arrive at a conclusion. Your problem may be psychogenic. But before making any comment it is better to undergo a full check up to identify if there is any underlying physical problem. So it is better to consult an andrologist first. If there is no physical abnormality you can consult a clinical psychologist.

Dear Mr. Gireesh,

This could be a sign of either an inflammation or infection in the prostate or urinary bladder. You need a consultation with andrologist. This can be treated effectively.

Dear Biju,

Suicide is not the solution for your problem. Parents are not aware of your sexual concern. The best solution you can undergo a full evaluation to find out whether you got any sexual dysfunction or any other condition which can lead to infertility. In case of any dysfunctions or problems it can be treated effectilvely. If you don have such problems you can proceed with marriage plans. 

Dear Ankita,

You may be suffering from a female orgasmic dysfunction (Situational). There is effective treatment for this problem.

Dear Naveen,

You need a proper clinical evaluation and appropriate investigations to understand your problem and suggest treatment. From your description it appears that you may have a chance of Peyronies disease. Without evaluation it cannot be identified. So it is advisable to consult an andrologist. 

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Your penis appears to be normal from your description. After marriage engage in sexual contact for a few weeks. If the ejacualtory problem persists you can seek treatment. Don worry, go ahead with your marriage plans. You need not take any treatment now.

It is not advisable to take self medication. Before taking any medicine you need a proper evaluation to find out the cause of your problems. Treatment if at all reequired can be planned only after this evaluation and physical examination. So please consult a doctor.