Question:

I am married for 1 1/2 years. My husband never expressed his interest in sex. We barely had 8-9 intercourse in this 1 1/2 years. I feel so disappointed and I can’t even figure out how I can make him interested

Reply

Your husband may be suffering from a sexual desire disorder or sexual aversion disorder. Other possibilities are relationship issues, family problems, occupational stress, personality problems etc. But if it continues like this you are likely to get more and more depressed. Gradually it may leads to marital conflict and even separation. It is better to discuss the matter openly with him and advise to seek treatment or help. If he doesn’t cooperate you can bring it to the notice of your and his parents. Take their help for treatment.